“Let me just call a thing a thing, beloved.” The term and somewhat official “Coaching” has been a white woman’s space for decades. Black women have been coaching for generations from the hair stylist, to Aunties of the home daycare for the younger generations, the loving 3rd-grade school teachers who encouraged and coached parents when they were struggling (shout out to Ms. Wansley) including housekeepers and homegirls, and everyone in between. 

Now is the time for us to be seen, valued, and discovered out loud and out front. People like you and me are looking for me and it is my divine energy and light to not be intimidated or afraid to offer our tools to teach you how to handle this sea of whiteness, where we are constantly defending ourselves, fighting for our rights, fixing other people’s shit and trying to matter all in one space. 

Self-love was not a concept neither my grandma’s nor yours had time to focus on. They were hard-working women that sacrificed their energy, mental wellness, and physical health to the point of early graves. I just lost my mother a little over 2 years ago at 64 years young and lost my grandmother in her 70s a few years before her. It’s time to put you first because if there is no you there is NO ONE else!

What coaching offers is a safe sacred space with 100% confidentially to push and challenge you to be YOU in a whole unapologetically black self. Killing all thoughts of anything besides you are dope shit and this is how you flourish in it. Don’t get me wrong turning off negativity when that’s all we deal with on a daily basis can be hard AF but it is not impossible. But you have to be willing to do the self-work to make yourself see the beauty in who you are. Coaching is NOT therapy. You don’t come here to tell the same hard, ugly, and truthful details of how hard it is out in this white world we live in. Together we work on how you can flip the lense and use your magical powers to create the life and story you want while life still lifing.